Comments on: The UnPost. http://www.yourlifeyourway.net/2010/01/21/the-unpost/ Coaching, Inspiration and Resources for Scanners aka Multi-passionate Renaissance People Tue, 07 Feb 2012 19:11:23 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Sujata http://www.yourlifeyourway.net/2010/01/21/the-unpost/comment-page-1/#comment-3140 Sujata Mon, 25 Jan 2010 05:33:52 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=3726#comment-3140 Thanks Tia for your comments. I especially valued what you said about "Setting time aside for tasks which may take you away from NOW " but get back to NOW. I will practice that. I also loved that "There ain't no music one can't dance to ..." I am generally a optimistic person and hates having negative thoughts .... but being a human being you dont realize when those negative mosters creep over. But I am glad of it today since I opened up a connection with you since I was tormented by the negative thoughts the other day. Thanks again. Thanks Tia for your comments. I especially valued what you said about “Setting time aside for tasks which may take you away from NOW ” but get back to NOW. I will practice that.
I also loved that “There ain’t no music one can’t dance to …”
I am generally a optimistic person and hates having negative thoughts …. but being a human being you dont realize when those negative mosters creep over. But I am glad of it today since I opened up a connection with you since I was tormented by the negative thoughts the other day.

Thanks again.

]]> By: Berta Bauer http://www.yourlifeyourway.net/2010/01/21/the-unpost/comment-page-1/#comment-3137 Berta Bauer Sun, 24 Jan 2010 18:53:27 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=3726#comment-3137 Tia, I love what you said, "Cos I don’t see anything more unstable than having a job where you could be let go anytime, or where your creativity and soul are stifled." I see it now and am so happy that do. I stayed in a job where my soul was stiffled way toooooooooo long, but now see that even that was perfect because I am so happy. That door is closed and the new door is opening, and right now I am feeling all the tingly sensations of when I step through that newly opened door. And I can relate to the micro-managing and 2nd guessing the universe. But I have always looked at it as me micro-managing and 2nd guessing myself. Now I see that it is the same thing! We all are the Universe, connected and one. So I have a new tool in my tool box, that being the recognition of my 2nd guessing myself is actually 2nd guessing the Universe. A couple of days ago my intuition told me to quit my part time job and get on with my joy. But I gave my word to my employer so I don't want to be backing out on that. Trustworthiness is one of my core values, so this is very hard to do. I do have an idea for my replacemnt, and if I could quit without causing any stress to my employer I would feel good about it. HA! The other thing that my intuition just said was that my job is keeping me from stepping into my new door. Now my job is to trust it. I think many of us reading your blog are in the same boat, and you turning the spot light on the uncertain waters your boat is sailing in helps us get comfortable with our own uncertain waters. Trusting is my next step. Tia,
I love what you said, “Cos I don’t see anything more unstable than having a job where you could be let go anytime, or where your creativity and soul are stifled.” I see it now and am so happy that do. I stayed in a job where my soul was stiffled way toooooooooo long, but now see that even that was perfect because I am so happy. That door is closed and the new door is opening, and right now I am feeling all the tingly sensations of when I step through that newly opened door.

And I can relate to the micro-managing and 2nd guessing the universe. But I have always looked at it as me micro-managing and 2nd guessing myself. Now I see that it is the same thing! We all are the Universe, connected and one. So I have a new tool in my tool box, that being the recognition of my 2nd guessing myself is actually 2nd guessing the Universe.

A couple of days ago my intuition told me to quit my part time job and get on with my joy. But I gave my word to my employer so I don’t want to be backing out on that. Trustworthiness is one of my core values, so this is very hard to do. I do have an idea for my replacemnt, and if I could quit without causing any stress to my employer I would feel good about it.

HA! The other thing that my intuition just said was that my job is keeping me from stepping into my new door. Now my job is to trust it.

I think many of us reading your blog are in the same boat, and you turning the spot light on the uncertain waters your boat is sailing in helps us get comfortable with our own uncertain waters.

Trusting is my next step.

]]> By: Tia http://www.yourlifeyourway.net/2010/01/21/the-unpost/comment-page-1/#comment-3134 Tia Sat, 23 Jan 2010 12:12:48 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=3726#comment-3134 Oh Gosh Sujata, love that you're reading the Power of Now and asking about it. By all means plan, but know that plans are just that - ideas of how you want your life to be and the things you want to do. As for the past, once you've learned from your mistakes, move on and don't look back cos if you haven't learned, those lessons will keep arriving till you HAVE learned so they are still going to be in the present. Also, living in the moment doesn't mean that you don't visualise your future. It means that instead of waiting till ... you get that job... get married .... win the lottery ... *insert your dream here*.... to be happy, you get happy NOW. Take the time to plan and introspect, heck do it for 30 min a day. Then get your mind back to now. What can you do today to bring you closer to your goals? How do you want to feel when you have achieved them? Why do you want them? Then, feel that way now. You want security? Start feeling secure now by connecting with the higher source within you that centers you and knows all is always well. You want money? Start feeing abundant with what you have right now. You want freedom? Practice feeling free from your thoughts and limiting beliefs for 5 minutes a day. Slowly but surely, you'll be living in the moment even as you plan for the future. One more thing - no amount of preparation will "prepare" you to face the music if you're already assuming the worst, instead you'll be unhappy now AND unhappy then. How about learning to dance so that when the music plays, you... dance? :) There ain't no music one can't dance to, good or bad hey. Couldn't resist that, lol. Hope this helps, would love to hear your thoughts! Oh Gosh Sujata, love that you’re reading the Power of Now and asking about it. By all means plan, but know that plans are just that – ideas of how you want your life to be and the things you want to do.

As for the past, once you’ve learned from your mistakes, move on and don’t look back cos if you haven’t learned, those lessons will keep arriving till you HAVE learned so they are still going to be in the present.

Also, living in the moment doesn’t mean that you don’t visualise your future. It means that instead of waiting till … you get that job… get married …. win the lottery … *insert your dream here*…. to be happy, you get happy NOW.

Take the time to plan and introspect, heck do it for 30 min a day. Then get your mind back to now. What can you do today to bring you closer to your goals? How do you want to feel when you have achieved them? Why do you want them? Then, feel that way now.

You want security? Start feeling secure now by connecting with the higher source within you that centers you and knows all is always well. You want money? Start feeing abundant with what you have right now. You want freedom? Practice feeling free from your thoughts and limiting beliefs for 5 minutes a day.

Slowly but surely, you’ll be living in the moment even as you plan for the future. One more thing – no amount of preparation will “prepare” you to face the music if you’re already assuming the worst, instead you’ll be unhappy now AND unhappy then.

How about learning to dance so that when the music plays, you… dance? :) There ain’t no music one can’t dance to, good or bad hey. Couldn’t resist that, lol. Hope this helps, would love to hear your thoughts!

]]> By: Sujata http://www.yourlifeyourway.net/2010/01/21/the-unpost/comment-page-1/#comment-3127 Sujata Sat, 23 Jan 2010 06:46:31 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=3726#comment-3127 Hi Tia, I have been feeling the same from the beginning of this month. I am between projects so you know that feeling - what will be the next one, when will it be, where will it be, how will it be ??? One point that I wanted to bring up to get your views was on "The power of NOW" (By the way I started reading this book based on your suggestions in your blog) and I had this question. When all we do is keep planing for our future or keep looking into the past to learn from our mistakes etc .... is it really as easy to live in the NOW moment. This way I never have any time for planning my future activities or for any introspection to learn from history. And it's probably more easy to live NOW but am I prepared enough to face the music when the time comes ?? Can you shed some thoughts around this ?? Hi Tia,

I have been feeling the same from the beginning of this month. I am between projects so you know that feeling – what will be the next one, when will it be, where will it be, how will it be ???

One point that I wanted to bring up to get your views was on “The power of NOW” (By the way I started reading this book based on your suggestions in your blog) and I had this question.
When all we do is keep planing for our future or keep looking into the past to learn from our mistakes etc …. is it really as easy to live in the NOW moment. This way I never have any time for planning my future activities or for any introspection to learn from history. And it’s probably more easy to live NOW but am I prepared enough to face the music when the time comes ??

Can you shed some thoughts around this ??

]]> By: Tia http://www.yourlifeyourway.net/2010/01/21/the-unpost/comment-page-1/#comment-3133 Tia Sat, 23 Jan 2010 04:58:57 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=3726#comment-3133 Hello my ♥ fav DC bloggess, ♥ I'm a little frenvious that you sat down with two other awesome women and connected - reminds me of when we met in Vancouver last year! Nah, I'm actually feeling your excitement and taking it on board. That is SOOO great, and YES, get them on the bus, then you can decide where to take it. Aren't bus journeys SO much fun? You don't care where it's going as much when you've got the fun people on board. And the cool thing about that? When your peeps are on the bus, amazing destinations will be dreamed up, possibly funner than if you planned the trip first and then got people on! Love that analogy so much esp when I think back to all the bus trips I've taken - they have truly been the BEST times .... from an entire bus of classmates coming home late at night from a school festival, or a busload of family n friends going to my brother's wedding, or FOUR buses of party people on the way from Atlanta to Savannah for a St Patty's party... oh my, oh my the memories! Every one of you here, I would have on my bus :) So - when you coming back here? xoxo Hello my ♥ fav DC bloggess, ♥

I’m a little frenvious that you sat down with two other awesome women and connected – reminds me of when we met in Vancouver last year! Nah, I’m actually feeling your excitement and taking it on board. That is SOOO great, and YES, get them on the bus, then you can decide where to take it.

Aren’t bus journeys SO much fun? You don’t care where it’s going as much when you’ve got the fun people on board. And the cool thing about that? When your peeps are on the bus, amazing destinations will be dreamed up, possibly funner than if you planned the trip first and then got people on!

Love that analogy so much esp when I think back to all the bus trips I’ve taken – they have truly been the BEST times …. from an entire bus of classmates coming home late at night from a school festival, or a busload of family n friends going to my brother’s wedding, or FOUR buses of party people on the way from Atlanta to Savannah for a St Patty’s party… oh my, oh my the memories!

Every one of you here, I would have on my bus :) So – when you coming back here? xoxo

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