Comments on: Attracting a mate – Give It Up or Wait It Out? http://www.yourlifeyourway.net/2009/12/20/attracting-a-mate-give-it-up-or-wait-it-out/ Coaching, Inspiration and Resources for Scanners aka Multi-passionate Renaissance People Wed, 16 May 2012 23:26:53 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Tia http://www.yourlifeyourway.net/2009/12/20/attracting-a-mate-give-it-up-or-wait-it-out/comment-page-1/#comment-2878 Tia Fri, 01 Jan 2010 02:07:10 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=3570#comment-2878 Awww that's so cute! Smiles :) :) :) Thanks for sharing that, love! Keeping things light and having FUN, yes, yes, YES. One that's easily forgotten at times, thanks for the reminder xo T Awww that’s so cute! Smiles :) :) :) Thanks for sharing that, love! Keeping things light and having FUN, yes, yes, YES. One that’s easily forgotten at times, thanks for the reminder xo T

]]> By: Tiffany http://www.yourlifeyourway.net/2009/12/20/attracting-a-mate-give-it-up-or-wait-it-out/comment-page-1/#comment-2850 Tiffany Mon, 28 Dec 2009 20:51:06 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=3570#comment-2850 Well I've had very few experiences in this realm (Tia knows why :D), but I've had ONE really great experience. I was watching a video that one of my classmates had made. I had no idea who he was, what he looked like or anything...but watching this video threw me for a loop! I fell in love completely with the artistry. I was amazed! Thinking about it all day I was just really happy and excited. That night, I was at another school function, helping hand out pamphlets and such, and it turns out HE is there. I'm a shy girl, romantically, I'm always the chased, never the chaser; however, my legs got out from under me, walked right up to him, and said "I really loved what you did with that video it was amazing!" We ended up having a ten minute conversation: turned out he and I were interested in many, many of the same things. We even had really similar aspirations. I agree with the "hear the click" thing. I felt like someone had dropped me in hell: my face was BURNING hot and my mind could only say one thing "He is...ADORABLE!". Fast forward three months: I'm going on a trip with my school, just a few friends and I going to another state to do some creative work. I was settling into the dorm when I hear someone shout 'Hello!". I walk out and who is it but Mr. Amazing! We spent a very very flirtatious week together in the middle of summer. Even my friends who knew nothing of the previous incident were asking "Do you like him? I think he likes you! Look at the way you guys act around each other!" Right now, we're simply good friends! All that heat didn't work out vibrationally but we have a great friendship now and it always makes me laugh to think about how it all started. So for me, keeping things light, acknowledging only what I like, and choosing a different focus when necessary is what works! For me the whole love process: from recognition to attraction to manifestation, is hilariously fun! Well I’ve had very few experiences in this realm (Tia knows why :D ), but I’ve had ONE really great experience. I was watching a video that one of my classmates had made. I had no idea who he was, what he looked like or anything…but watching this video threw me for a loop! I fell in love completely with the artistry. I was amazed! Thinking about it all day I was just really happy and excited. That night, I was at another school function, helping hand out pamphlets and such, and it turns out HE is there. I’m a shy girl, romantically, I’m always the chased, never the chaser; however, my legs got out from under me, walked right up to him, and said “I really loved what you did with that video it was amazing!” We ended up having a ten minute conversation: turned out he and I were interested in many, many of the same things. We even had really similar aspirations. I agree with the “hear the click” thing. I felt like someone had dropped me in hell: my face was BURNING hot and my mind could only say one thing “He is…ADORABLE!”.

Fast forward three months: I’m going on a trip with my school, just a few friends and I going to another state to do some creative work. I was settling into the dorm when I hear someone shout ‘Hello!”. I walk out and who is it but Mr. Amazing! We spent a very very flirtatious week together in the middle of summer. Even my friends who knew nothing of the previous incident were asking “Do you like him? I think he likes you! Look at the way you guys act around each other!”

Right now, we’re simply good friends! All that heat didn’t work out vibrationally but we have a great friendship now and it always makes me laugh to think about how it all started.

So for me, keeping things light, acknowledging only what I like, and choosing a different focus when necessary is what works! For me the whole love process: from recognition to attraction to manifestation, is hilariously fun!

]]> By: Tia http://www.yourlifeyourway.net/2009/12/20/attracting-a-mate-give-it-up-or-wait-it-out/comment-page-1/#comment-2784 Tia Tue, 22 Dec 2009 23:49:56 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=3570#comment-2784 Ooooooooooohh the click just thrilled the romantic in me :) Love when that happens! I'm guessing it's the lining up where all the "work" really is. And the best way to line up with our desire is to do what makes us feel good. Every single time. Thanks for sharing, Karen, I'm still smiling at young love! Ooooooooooohh the click just thrilled the romantic in me :) Love when that happens! I’m guessing it’s the lining up where all the “work” really is. And the best way to line up with our desire is to do what makes us feel good. Every single time. Thanks for sharing, Karen, I’m still smiling at young love!

]]> By: Karen McLaughlin http://www.yourlifeyourway.net/2009/12/20/attracting-a-mate-give-it-up-or-wait-it-out/comment-page-1/#comment-2780 Karen McLaughlin Tue, 22 Dec 2009 15:45:04 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=3570#comment-2780 I wasn't consciously "looking for a relationship" when I met my husband. I was only 16, LOL! We grew up in the same small town but had somehow never met until then. I really did meet him just walking down the street :) I was at a community dance with a couple of friends. We were bored and decided to leave early. We were walking down the main street of our town, when we ran into a couple of guys walking in the opposite direction. One of the friends I was with knew these guys because they were friends of the guy she was dating at the time. So we stopped and chatted, ended up all going to get subs together, etc. You could practically hear the "click" when my dh and I first locked eyes - there was no question about it for either of us. We've been together since that night (almost 22 yrs). You really don't have to go "looking for love" if you don't want to - the Universe will absolutely bring it right to you, as long as you're lined up with it! I wasn’t consciously “looking for a relationship” when I met my husband. I was only 16, LOL! We grew up in the same small town but had somehow never met until then. I really did meet him just walking down the street :) I was at a community dance with a couple of friends. We were bored and decided to leave early. We were walking down the main street of our town, when we ran into a couple of guys walking in the opposite direction. One of the friends I was with knew these guys because they were friends of the guy she was dating at the time. So we stopped and chatted, ended up all going to get subs together, etc. You could practically hear the “click” when my dh and I first locked eyes – there was no question about it for either of us. We’ve been together since that night (almost 22 yrs). You really don’t have to go “looking for love” if you don’t want to – the Universe will absolutely bring it right to you, as long as you’re lined up with it!

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