Comments on: From Victim to Victor – A Personal Note http://www.yourlifeyourway.net/2009/12/09/from-victim-to-victor-a-personal-note/ Coaching, Inspiration and Resources for Scanners aka Multi-passionate Renaissance People Wed, 16 May 2012 23:26:53 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Tia http://www.yourlifeyourway.net/2009/12/09/from-victim-to-victor-a-personal-note/comment-page-1/#comment-2709 Tia Fri, 18 Dec 2009 11:11:47 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=3421#comment-2709 Glad I was there just when you needed Alli, of course there are no co-incidences... I just came home to my friend`s from a night out feeling a little sad for the past and the way things are now and thought it was so ironic that I was telling you how to change that vibe, yet HERE I WAS IN IT AGAIN! Blows my MIND how I was brought to this place once more - feeling and thinking things that I don`t want to anymore and getting sucked into another pattern (this time it was the old one of feeling unloved and alone). To anyone who thinks I`m on a 5 week holiday (esp ME), I say - I wish it was. It`s more like an exorcism and painful at times. All a part of the bigger plan though, so I`m trusting, allowing, flowing and experiencing the healing process and movement through aspects of my life. Ahhhhhh. Ahhhhhh! Glad I was there just when you needed Alli, of course there are no co-incidences… I just came home to my friend`s from a night out feeling a little sad for the past and the way things are now and thought it was so ironic that I was telling you how to change that vibe, yet HERE I WAS IN IT AGAIN!

Blows my MIND how I was brought to this place once more – feeling and thinking things that I don`t want to anymore and getting sucked into another pattern (this time it was the old one of feeling unloved and alone).

To anyone who thinks I`m on a 5 week holiday (esp ME), I say – I wish it was. It`s more like an exorcism and painful at times. All a part of the bigger plan though, so I`m trusting, allowing, flowing and experiencing the healing process and movement through aspects of my life.

Ahhhhhh. Ahhhhhh!

]]> By: Allison Nazarian http://www.yourlifeyourway.net/2009/12/09/from-victim-to-victor-a-personal-note/comment-page-1/#comment-2701 Allison Nazarian Fri, 18 Dec 2009 00:52:49 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=3421#comment-2701 Thank you Tia! This is just what I needed right in this moment. (No accidents...) I was annoyed with myself for doing something that I have done before and didn't want to do again (something mundane but nevertheless annoying to me). But I am the me of right now, not of yesterday or last week, and I needed the reminder...again. "...if you’re gonna step into the past, make sure you take the present with you." Yes! Thank you! Love, Alli Thank you Tia!

This is just what I needed right in this moment. (No accidents…) I was annoyed with myself for doing something that I have done before and didn’t want to do again (something mundane but nevertheless annoying to me). But I am the me of right now, not of yesterday or last week, and I needed the reminder…again.

“…if you’re gonna step into the past, make sure you take the present with you.”

Yes!

Thank you!

Love,
Alli

]]> By: Pursuing Happiness Is A Trap & YOU’RE in it. : Coach T.I.A – Coaching You to Take Inspired Action http://www.yourlifeyourway.net/2009/12/09/from-victim-to-victor-a-personal-note/comment-page-1/#comment-2640 Pursuing Happiness Is A Trap & YOU’RE in it. : Coach T.I.A – Coaching You to Take Inspired Action Mon, 14 Dec 2009 11:39:47 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=3421#comment-2640 [...] happened to me when I talked about being dragged into the emotions and drama of being a victim in the past, when I was hard on myself for being in that place again, till I realised just how far [...] [...] happened to me when I talked about being dragged into the emotions and drama of being a victim in the past, when I was hard on myself for being in that place again, till I realised just how far [...]

]]> By: Tia http://www.yourlifeyourway.net/2009/12/09/from-victim-to-victor-a-personal-note/comment-page-1/#comment-2623 Tia Sat, 12 Dec 2009 22:21:05 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=3421#comment-2623 2 years to 1 day .. Leslie my girl, I am proud of you (and me) (and ALL of us)! I'm learning that awareness doesn't mean we'll stop doing the 'dumb' things we do or stop feeling what we feel - normal human emotions - it just means we allow, experience and move on without wrecking ourselves. I'm SO thinking this trip is all about exorcising the past and looking at old patterns re-emerge - it's not about getting rid of them forever as it is a deeper layer of understanding and healing. Cryptic, I know but have patience, next blog post forthcoming! And what a lesson in assumptionitis THAT was... Thanks for always reading and sharing and yes, I've made it to Day 6 and the learning and living keeps on a-coming! Love you babe xo 2 years to 1 day .. Leslie my girl, I am proud of you (and me) (and ALL of us)! I’m learning that awareness doesn’t mean we’ll stop doing the ‘dumb’ things we do or stop feeling what we feel – normal human emotions – it just means we allow, experience and move on without wrecking ourselves.

I’m SO thinking this trip is all about exorcising the past and looking at old patterns re-emerge – it’s not about getting rid of them forever as it is a deeper layer of understanding and healing. Cryptic, I know but have patience, next blog post forthcoming! And what a lesson in assumptionitis THAT was…

Thanks for always reading and sharing and yes, I’ve made it to Day 6 and the learning and living keeps on a-coming! Love you babe xo

]]> By: Leslie Stein http://www.yourlifeyourway.net/2009/12/09/from-victim-to-victor-a-personal-note/comment-page-1/#comment-2622 Leslie Stein Sat, 12 Dec 2009 19:18:45 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=3421#comment-2622 Loved this post!!! And love that you stuck with your feelings until your answer changed. But I bet they changed faster than they ever did in the past! I know I've told you about my recent boy disaster (he disappeared for no real reason) which led to a mini-meltdown. I say "mini" because I let myself feel the anger, hut & disappointment fully for an entire DAY. That Saturday was a full-on pity party! A day might seem like a bit much until you know that the last time I had a really bad break-up not of my choosing, the pity party last 2 YEARS!! Give that timeframe, a day was like a new land-speed record! And look at you...you were able to go through the whole range of emotions in 1.5 hours. Damn impressive! I never get tired of reading your blog posts. Every one has great insight learning. Congrats to you on making it to NZ, living throught e 1.5 hour rain fiasco, and being totally awesome the whole way thru! :-) Loved this post!!! And love that you stuck with your feelings until your answer changed. But I bet they changed faster than they ever did in the past!

I know I’ve told you about my recent boy disaster (he disappeared for no real reason) which led to a mini-meltdown. I say “mini” because I let myself feel the anger, hut & disappointment fully for an entire DAY. That Saturday was a full-on pity party!

A day might seem like a bit much until you know that the last time I had a really bad break-up not of my choosing, the pity party last 2 YEARS!! Give that timeframe, a day was like a new land-speed record!

And look at you…you were able to go through the whole range of emotions in 1.5 hours. Damn impressive!

I never get tired of reading your blog posts. Every one has great insight learning. Congrats to you on making it to NZ, living throught e 1.5 hour rain fiasco, and being totally awesome the whole way thru! :-)

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