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		<title>By: Tia</title>
		<link>http://www.coachtia.com/2009/11/24/unmanifesting-the-manifested-how-to-keep-what-you-attract/comment-page-1/#comment-2406</link>
		<dc:creator>Tia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Nov 2009 18:20:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awesome Carol! I&#039;ll be taking Lynn&#039;s book along with me on the trip (and Katie&#039;s Loving What Is). You are going to love them :)

Sonia, honey, PEACE is where it&#039;s at I&#039;m telling you (and everyone)! I find that often, happiness becomes dependent on something out there - which is why it can be hard to get to that place when we&#039;re vibing low. 

Peace on the other hand, leads to quiet joy, which leads to more joy and the joyous-er you get, the happier you get and that&#039;s what makes things happen. I&#039;m all for peace and the absence of suffering. It is SO easy to get to peace in the moment - simply shut everything off and do nothing. Nothing. Spend 2 minutes just being.

Or you could put on some soothing music, and feel it in every part of your body, focus on your breathing and just imagine yourself bathed in light and love. Let your instincts guide you. Ahhh peace!

Btw, did you just say &quot;we&#039;ll see&quot;!? ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awesome Carol! I&#8217;ll be taking Lynn&#8217;s book along with me on the trip (and Katie&#8217;s Loving What Is). You are going to love them <img src='http://www.coachtia.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Sonia, honey, PEACE is where it&#8217;s at I&#8217;m telling you (and everyone)! I find that often, happiness becomes dependent on something out there &#8211; which is why it can be hard to get to that place when we&#8217;re vibing low. </p>
<p>Peace on the other hand, leads to quiet joy, which leads to more joy and the joyous-er you get, the happier you get and that&#8217;s what makes things happen. I&#8217;m all for peace and the absence of suffering. It is SO easy to get to peace in the moment &#8211; simply shut everything off and do nothing. Nothing. Spend 2 minutes just being.</p>
<p>Or you could put on some soothing music, and feel it in every part of your body, focus on your breathing and just imagine yourself bathed in light and love. Let your instincts guide you. Ahhh peace!</p>
<p>Btw, did you just say &#8220;we&#8217;ll see&#8221;!? <img src='http://www.coachtia.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: sonia</title>
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		<dc:creator>sonia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Nov 2009 14:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yes that is exactly the one :( but I&#039;m ok now. I did manifest him out of the blue as I&#039;ve described him in my pray rain journal, so I can do it again, may be not him, but someone as special as he was, (or may be him again, who knows? Universe, I&#039;m open to any possibility :)) but I&#039;ll manage my vibe first. I found out I had problems of worthiness and &quot;goodenoughiness&quot;. I&#039;ll take care of that first and then, we&#039;ll see. A friend gave me &quot;excuse me your life is waiting&quot; a few days ago but I haven&#039;t read it yet. 
You think we should look for peace? I know what  happy feels like but peaceful? Well, I&#039;ll try to find out. :D
a warm hug girlfriend.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yes that is exactly the one <img src='http://www.coachtia.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' />  but I&#8217;m ok now. I did manifest him out of the blue as I&#8217;ve described him in my pray rain journal, so I can do it again, may be not him, but someone as special as he was, (or may be him again, who knows? Universe, I&#8217;m open to any possibility <img src='http://www.coachtia.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> ) but I&#8217;ll manage my vibe first. I found out I had problems of worthiness and &#8220;goodenoughiness&#8221;. I&#8217;ll take care of that first and then, we&#8217;ll see. A friend gave me &#8220;excuse me your life is waiting&#8221; a few days ago but I haven&#8217;t read it yet.<br />
You think we should look for peace? I know what  happy feels like but peaceful? Well, I&#8217;ll try to find out. <img src='http://www.coachtia.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
a warm hug girlfriend.</p>
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		<title>By: Carol</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carol</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Nov 2009 13:53:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for recommending Byron Katie&#039;s work, Tia.  I&#039;ve heard of her work, but haven&#039;t read any of her material yet.  Just went out on our library&#039;s website and reserved several of her books (and also Lynn Grabhorn&#039;s book you just recommended).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for recommending Byron Katie&#8217;s work, Tia.  I&#8217;ve heard of her work, but haven&#8217;t read any of her material yet.  Just went out on our library&#8217;s website and reserved several of her books (and also Lynn Grabhorn&#8217;s book you just recommended).</p>
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		<title>By: Tia</title>
		<link>http://www.coachtia.com/2009/11/24/unmanifesting-the-manifested-how-to-keep-what-you-attract/comment-page-1/#comment-2390</link>
		<dc:creator>Tia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Nov 2009 23:33:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Is this the one we&#039;ve been hearing about in J&#039;s posts? I hear you sister. On that note, just started reading Lynn Grabhorn&#039;s Excuse me your life is waiting and of all the LOA books I&#039;ve read, this one is turning out to be my favourite. 

It&#039;s all about feeling good and even though we know that&#039;s how everything we want happens, I found that sometimes it just doesn&#039;t help to try feeling now as we would then. So the trick (as I learned 2 days ago), is to get to the core feeling of PEACE. Not joy, happiness, love, excitement etc, but peace.

Cos when peace exists, happiness follows. The other way around has been harder for me and I suspect, for many of us. It was quite the revelation and manifestation that followed after I realised this. Off to blog about it now. 

Hooray for recognising your ready steady go-stay-go-stay-ness Sonia! :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is this the one we&#8217;ve been hearing about in J&#8217;s posts? I hear you sister. On that note, just started reading Lynn Grabhorn&#8217;s Excuse me your life is waiting and of all the LOA books I&#8217;ve read, this one is turning out to be my favourite. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s all about feeling good and even though we know that&#8217;s how everything we want happens, I found that sometimes it just doesn&#8217;t help to try feeling now as we would then. So the trick (as I learned 2 days ago), is to get to the core feeling of PEACE. Not joy, happiness, love, excitement etc, but peace.</p>
<p>Cos when peace exists, happiness follows. The other way around has been harder for me and I suspect, for many of us. It was quite the revelation and manifestation that followed after I realised this. Off to blog about it now. </p>
<p>Hooray for recognising your ready steady go-stay-go-stay-ness Sonia! <img src='http://www.coachtia.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: sonia</title>
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		<dc:creator>sonia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Nov 2009 21:34:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tia!
Gosh, I can relate to this so much, it&#039;s mind blowing! I manifested the perfect guy and the perfect relationship and then out of all my insecurities and fears, I just blew it away. My desire was very strong so bum! manifestation but I wasn&#039;t perfectly aligned so boom! lost il all. It was scary and heart breaking but I know I still need to work some things out. I&#039;m not ready for my ideal mate because I lack faith and confidence but I&#039;m learning, may be the hard way, but I&#039;m learning anyway and I know I&#039;m getting closer. thanks for making things even clearer. Wish it could be easier but as Jeannette said, we like the drama :)))))</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tia!<br />
Gosh, I can relate to this so much, it&#8217;s mind blowing! I manifested the perfect guy and the perfect relationship and then out of all my insecurities and fears, I just blew it away. My desire was very strong so bum! manifestation but I wasn&#8217;t perfectly aligned so boom! lost il all. It was scary and heart breaking but I know I still need to work some things out. I&#8217;m not ready for my ideal mate because I lack faith and confidence but I&#8217;m learning, may be the hard way, but I&#8217;m learning anyway and I know I&#8217;m getting closer. thanks for making things even clearer. Wish it could be easier but as Jeannette said, we like the drama <img src='http://www.coachtia.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> ))))</p>
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		<title>By: Tia</title>
		<link>http://www.coachtia.com/2009/11/24/unmanifesting-the-manifested-how-to-keep-what-you-attract/comment-page-1/#comment-2378</link>
		<dc:creator>Tia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Nov 2009 18:47:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good point! Although, I&#039;m tempted to wonder if unmanifesting isn&#039;t necessarily a result of going down the tube but that going down the tube could be a result of unmanifesting at a deeper level? Maybe I&#039;m getting caught up in semantics here!

Either ways, it&#039;s a sign desires are changing and need tweaking or changing. The higher the level of consciousness and awareness, the quicker the flip around from manifesting to letting it to and re-manifesting stronger and better. We&#039;re keeping good company, Berta!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good point! Although, I&#8217;m tempted to wonder if unmanifesting isn&#8217;t necessarily a result of going down the tube but that going down the tube could be a result of unmanifesting at a deeper level? Maybe I&#8217;m getting caught up in semantics here!</p>
<p>Either ways, it&#8217;s a sign desires are changing and need tweaking or changing. The higher the level of consciousness and awareness, the quicker the flip around from manifesting to letting it to and re-manifesting stronger and better. We&#8217;re keeping good company, Berta!</p>
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		<title>By: Berta Bauer</title>
		<link>http://www.coachtia.com/2009/11/24/unmanifesting-the-manifested-how-to-keep-what-you-attract/comment-page-1/#comment-2371</link>
		<dc:creator>Berta Bauer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Nov 2009 06:26:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have been manifesting to continually improve my relationship with a few very important people in my life. Around the holidays it is easy for me to go down the tube when things aren&#039;t perfect. By going down the tube I am unmanifesting. But I have learned that by allowing myself to be in that place where things are not yet what I want, I actually rebounded faster. 

My manifesting really is working. I know by comparing it to the relationships I had before I started manifesting one year ago. Interestingly, I am not changing anyone but myself (through my manifesting--feeling the relationships as I want them); nor am I trying to change anyone. But instead of it being work, it is fun to imagine the feelings and then experience it. 


In some cases, maybe a little unmanifesting is a good thing; for clarification, for re-commitment and new appreciation. And good for stronger manifesting.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been manifesting to continually improve my relationship with a few very important people in my life. Around the holidays it is easy for me to go down the tube when things aren&#8217;t perfect. By going down the tube I am unmanifesting. But I have learned that by allowing myself to be in that place where things are not yet what I want, I actually rebounded faster. </p>
<p>My manifesting really is working. I know by comparing it to the relationships I had before I started manifesting one year ago. Interestingly, I am not changing anyone but myself (through my manifesting&#8211;feeling the relationships as I want them); nor am I trying to change anyone. But instead of it being work, it is fun to imagine the feelings and then experience it. </p>
<p>In some cases, maybe a little unmanifesting is a good thing; for clarification, for re-commitment and new appreciation. And good for stronger manifesting.</p>
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		<title>By: Tia</title>
		<link>http://www.coachtia.com/2009/11/24/unmanifesting-the-manifested-how-to-keep-what-you-attract/comment-page-1/#comment-2369</link>
		<dc:creator>Tia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 21:13:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Sergi, appreciate you stopping by. Sometimes, one doesn&#039;t even need to read to get the vibe ay, glad you&#039;re so clued into the energy field that surrounds us :) That&#039;s my ultimate goal - to convey it all without having to say a word. 

Love connecting with like minded souls, thank you and do drop by again!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Sergi, appreciate you stopping by. Sometimes, one doesn&#8217;t even need to read to get the vibe ay, glad you&#8217;re so clued into the energy field that surrounds us <img src='http://www.coachtia.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  That&#8217;s my ultimate goal &#8211; to convey it all without having to say a word. </p>
<p>Love connecting with like minded souls, thank you and do drop by again!</p>
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		<title>By: Sergi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sergi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 20:51:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tia,

I like your Energy. Sorry I did not read all your content, but the CONTEXT is great. Your words inspire me to take action! (isn&#039;t that your slogan?).

Congratulations. I feel we are much of the same Family.

Sergi</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tia,</p>
<p>I like your Energy. Sorry I did not read all your content, but the CONTEXT is great. Your words inspire me to take action! (isn&#8217;t that your slogan?).</p>
<p>Congratulations. I feel we are much of the same Family.</p>
<p>Sergi</p>
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		<title>By: Tia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 19:10:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Something else happened yesterday Carol - as I was going through some flux, I decided to sit with this trip that I&#039;ve been manifesting, feeling the desire to go and the attachment around it. And I worked myself into such a state that I just KNEW I was going to mess it up if I didn&#039;t take immediate action.

So I asked myself &quot;what do I really want&quot;? I did want to go, yes, but if I didn&#039;t get to go - how torn up was I choosing to be? I realised whether I went or not, what I REALLY wanted in this moment was PEACE. And so, I chose peace. 

I did Byron Katie&#039;s Work, I worked through fear and I asked for peace. Within minutes I had 4 sources offering it to me! Amazing! Then I took Inspired Action, went for a walk, came back - and the thing I had been wanting, was done!
 
The point of this story is that at the crux of it all, I wanted to feel good about whatever happened and when I focused on bringing that into my life, the other thing just fell into place. A great reminder to create the feeling place of the desire.

So when it comes to sabotage - ask yourself, what do I want to feel, whether I lose this thing or not. That worked like magic for me and it will for you too! I tell you Carol, I am still marveling at the simplicity of it all. If you haven&#039;t done the work yet, I highly suggest it http://thework.com/index.asp 

Happy Thanksgiving!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Something else happened yesterday Carol &#8211; as I was going through some flux, I decided to sit with this trip that I&#8217;ve been manifesting, feeling the desire to go and the attachment around it. And I worked myself into such a state that I just KNEW I was going to mess it up if I didn&#8217;t take immediate action.</p>
<p>So I asked myself &#8220;what do I really want&#8221;? I did want to go, yes, but if I didn&#8217;t get to go &#8211; how torn up was I choosing to be? I realised whether I went or not, what I REALLY wanted in this moment was PEACE. And so, I chose peace. </p>
<p>I did Byron Katie&#8217;s Work, I worked through fear and I asked for peace. Within minutes I had 4 sources offering it to me! Amazing! Then I took Inspired Action, went for a walk, came back &#8211; and the thing I had been wanting, was done!</p>
<p>The point of this story is that at the crux of it all, I wanted to feel good about whatever happened and when I focused on bringing that into my life, the other thing just fell into place. A great reminder to create the feeling place of the desire.</p>
<p>So when it comes to sabotage &#8211; ask yourself, what do I want to feel, whether I lose this thing or not. That worked like magic for me and it will for you too! I tell you Carol, I am still marveling at the simplicity of it all. If you haven&#8217;t done the work yet, I highly suggest it <a href="http://thework.com/index.asp" rel="nofollow">http://thework.com/index.asp</a> </p>
<p>Happy Thanksgiving!</p>
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