Comments on: The Epiphany – Or Why I Don`t Have What I Want http://www.coachtia.com/2009/09/13/the-epiphany-or-why-i-dont-have-what-i-want/ Life Coaching, Law of Attraction, NLP, Manifesting Techniques, Inspired Action, Conscious creation, personal development, overcoming self limiting beliefs Sat, 13 Mar 2010 21:54:48 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: These Are a Few of My Favourite Things ♬ ♬ : Coach T.I.A – Coaching You to Take Inspired Action http://www.coachtia.com/2009/09/13/the-epiphany-or-why-i-dont-have-what-i-want/comment-page-1/#comment-1833 These Are a Few of My Favourite Things ♬ ♬ : Coach T.I.A – Coaching You to Take Inspired Action Wed, 28 Oct 2009 04:33:46 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=1776#comment-1833 [...] epiphanies (they [...] [...] epiphanies (they [...]

]]> By: Tia http://www.coachtia.com/2009/09/13/the-epiphany-or-why-i-dont-have-what-i-want/comment-page-1/#comment-1189 Tia Wed, 16 Sep 2009 04:04:14 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=1776#comment-1189 Ta Missy! NEXT is what I've got written on a flash card stuck to my wall. Bring on the next experience, as each new experience reveals to me even more of what I truly want. There's your clue right there, listening to your intuition and knowing that it WILL happen, just not today and only cos that's what you want. YAY for clarity and relief. Takes the pressure right off doesn't it? No more wondering why what you asked for isn't here yet, yipppeee ki yayy!! Ps: I love "fancy the pants off me as much as I fancy the pants off him" SO much that I'm totally borrowing it for my PRJ. Hehe thanks lady xo Ta Missy! NEXT is what I’ve got written on a flash card stuck to my wall. Bring on the next experience, as each new experience reveals to me even more of what I truly want.

There’s your clue right there, listening to your intuition and knowing that it WILL happen, just not today and only cos that’s what you want. YAY for clarity and relief. Takes the pressure right off doesn’t it? No more wondering why what you asked for isn’t here yet, yipppeee ki yayy!!

Ps: I love “fancy the pants off me as much as I fancy the pants off him” SO much that I’m totally borrowing it for my PRJ. Hehe thanks lady xo

]]> By: MissyB http://www.coachtia.com/2009/09/13/the-epiphany-or-why-i-dont-have-what-i-want/comment-page-1/#comment-1182 MissyB Tue, 15 Sep 2009 20:24:33 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=1776#comment-1182 I loved this when it dropped in my in box - and I've taken time to reflect. Both you and our Good Vibe Coach have thrown out some thoughtful stuff recently. I've thought for a while that I'm not ready for the relationship I want. I got busy doing it all like it says - list qualities etc. But these are things I want in a long term partner ... but I know deep down that the commitment of a long term partner is just a no go at the mo. ALL I WANT IS THIS : for the best suited man for me to find me, who fancies the pants off me as much as I fancy the pants off him, to be compaitible in physical and emotional ways...but above all, to hit it off and just enjoy the journey. If it leads the whole hog then good, but if it doesn't, then NEXT ! Jumping headlong in to the commitment thing feels bad - time to refine my wants. I loved this when it dropped in my in box – and I’ve taken time to reflect. Both you and our Good Vibe Coach have thrown out some thoughtful stuff recently.
I’ve thought for a while that I’m not ready for the relationship I want. I got busy doing it all like it says – list qualities etc. But these are things I want in a long term partner … but I know deep down that the commitment of a long term partner is just a no go at the mo.
ALL I WANT IS THIS : for the best suited man for me to find me, who fancies the pants off me as much as I fancy the pants off him, to be compaitible in physical and emotional ways…but above all, to hit it off and just enjoy the journey. If it leads the whole hog then good, but if it doesn’t, then NEXT !
Jumping headlong in to the commitment thing feels bad – time to refine my wants.

]]> By: Tia http://www.coachtia.com/2009/09/13/the-epiphany-or-why-i-dont-have-what-i-want/comment-page-1/#comment-1180 Tia Tue, 15 Sep 2009 17:53:20 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=1776#comment-1180 Hey Judie, let me know if you find any kinks around that goal ok, would love to hear about the process! I KNOW it will happen if you want it enough and have clean energy around it. Looking fwd to the manifestation :D Cassandra, girl, how did I not check out your blog sooner? Maybe it has to do with my wanting to work with kids and youth - I'm being drawn to coaches and people who are in that field. You are doing phenomenal work and I'm glad to be in touch again. Love you! Thanks for the contribution, that's a refreshing take on "feel now as you would feel then" by <strong>including not just feelings but activities and things in your life NOW</strong> that you would have then. Simple and SUPER effective. Nice one, thanks! Hey Judie, let me know if you find any kinks around that goal ok, would love to hear about the process! I KNOW it will happen if you want it enough and have clean energy around it. Looking fwd to the manifestation :D

Cassandra, girl, how did I not check out your blog sooner? Maybe it has to do with my wanting to work with kids and youth – I’m being drawn to coaches and people who are in that field. You are doing phenomenal work and I’m glad to be in touch again. Love you!

Thanks for the contribution, that’s a refreshing take on “feel now as you would feel then” by including not just feelings but activities and things in your life NOW that you would have then. Simple and SUPER effective. Nice one, thanks!

]]> By: Cassandra Rae {Simply Fearless} http://www.coachtia.com/2009/09/13/the-epiphany-or-why-i-dont-have-what-i-want/comment-page-1/#comment-1179 Cassandra Rae {Simply Fearless} Tue, 15 Sep 2009 17:24:10 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=1776#comment-1179 Super powerful post & epiphanies! Way to go. Another angle to take is to consider what those BIG dreams will bring you (i.e. marriage brings intimacy, fun, adventure, companionship) and set an intention to manifest the goodies as opposed to the specifics (i.e. I must be married) Thank you so much for stopping by and checking out my VLOG! I felt so supported and happy by your kind comments. Much love your way! Super powerful post & epiphanies! Way to go.

Another angle to take is to consider what those BIG dreams will bring you (i.e. marriage brings intimacy, fun, adventure, companionship) and set an intention to manifest the goodies as opposed to the specifics (i.e. I must be married)

Thank you so much for stopping by and checking out my VLOG! I felt so supported and happy by your kind comments.

Much love your way!

]]> By: JudiesJuice http://www.coachtia.com/2009/09/13/the-epiphany-or-why-i-dont-have-what-i-want/comment-page-1/#comment-1178 JudiesJuice Tue, 15 Sep 2009 17:06:31 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=1776#comment-1178 Thank you for addressing my question Tia! I appreciate your perspective. I definitely do really want this goal to manifest and I feel confident it will :-) Happy Manifesting everyone!! Thank you for addressing my question Tia! I appreciate your perspective. I definitely do really want this goal to manifest and I feel confident it will :-) Happy Manifesting everyone!!

]]> By: Tia http://www.coachtia.com/2009/09/13/the-epiphany-or-why-i-dont-have-what-i-want/comment-page-1/#comment-1177 Tia Tue, 15 Sep 2009 16:53:11 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=1776#comment-1177 Thank you Anne! It's a pleasure to have you drop by. You're my kinda sunflowery girl, love your pretty website :D I am SO glad for the subtle mindshift that happened once I realised what was sabotaging some of my wants. Since that day, and since 9/9/09 when I made a few small, important changes in my life, it feels like magic is happening. Doors are opening, offers are being made and I'm basking in the midst of it all, even though there's hard work ahead as I follow my purpose. The GREAT thing is that being clear about what I want AND am ready for, stops the struggle and questioning which bogs manifestations down! Which is what I'm intending for everyone who reads this post as well. Double yay! I'm really grateful that so many people have shared the link around, and for the feedback I'm getting about epiphanies some have had as a result. Wow. It really is true, when one shines passion and truth, wonderful things happen. Blessed to have been able to express it in a way that resonated with so many. Thank you Universe! Thank you Anne! It’s a pleasure to have you drop by. You’re my kinda sunflowery girl, love your pretty website :D

I am SO glad for the subtle mindshift that happened once I realised what was sabotaging some of my wants. Since that day, and since 9/9/09 when I made a few small, important changes in my life, it feels like magic is happening. Doors are opening, offers are being made and I’m basking in the midst of it all, even though there’s hard work ahead as I follow my purpose.

The GREAT thing is that being clear about what I want AND am ready for, stops the struggle and questioning which bogs manifestations down! Which is what I’m intending for everyone who reads this post as well. Double yay!

I’m really grateful that so many people have shared the link around, and for the feedback I’m getting about epiphanies some have had as a result. Wow. It really is true, when one shines passion and truth, wonderful things happen.

Blessed to have been able to express it in a way that resonated with so many. Thank you Universe!

]]> By: Anne http://www.coachtia.com/2009/09/13/the-epiphany-or-why-i-dont-have-what-i-want/comment-page-1/#comment-1176 Anne Tue, 15 Sep 2009 14:58:16 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=1776#comment-1176 Hi Tia - What an on target posting. Loved it because it makes such perfect sense. I shared the link on Twitter and on my fan page on fb too. Seems as though a lot of people have. I think the universe was ready to be heard and you had the words to make it real for everyone. Thank you. I'm off to rethink steps 1 - 3 for myself. Much joy to you! Hi Tia –
What an on target posting. Loved it because it makes such perfect sense.
I shared the link on Twitter and on my fan page on fb too. Seems as though a lot of people have. I think the universe was ready to be heard and you had the words to make it real for everyone.
Thank you. I’m off to rethink steps 1 – 3 for myself.
Much joy to you!

]]> By: Tia http://www.coachtia.com/2009/09/13/the-epiphany-or-why-i-dont-have-what-i-want/comment-page-1/#comment-1172 Tia Tue, 15 Sep 2009 06:34:47 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=1776#comment-1172 Cheri, now I know why I didn't write this post the day of the epiphany 2 weeks ago! It's cos we had to have that conversation and you had to share your fabulous words with me and THEN this post was ready to flow and write itself the way it did. Thanks, I owe ya! I'm taking this to heart "Very firmly planted. Flexible and able to move, but tied in" it takes away a lot of that non committal, I don't-know-what's-going-to-happen next-so-I-can't-set-down-roots-just-yet feeling. What a relief to know that we CAN live fully here, in the now and be okay with change when it happens rather than anticipating it all the time. Sure makes a big diff to my level of commitment when I see it that way :) Thank you for this gift! Love you! Cheri, now I know why I didn’t write this post the day of the epiphany 2 weeks ago! It’s cos we had to have that conversation and you had to share your fabulous words with me and THEN this post was ready to flow and write itself the way it did. Thanks, I owe ya!

I’m taking this to heart “Very firmly planted. Flexible and able to move, but tied in” it takes away a lot of that non committal, I don’t-know-what’s-going-to-happen next-so-I-can’t-set-down-roots-just-yet feeling.

What a relief to know that we CAN live fully here, in the now and be okay with change when it happens rather than anticipating it all the time. Sure makes a big diff to my level of commitment when I see it that way :)

Thank you for this gift! Love you!

]]> By: Cheri http://www.coachtia.com/2009/09/13/the-epiphany-or-why-i-dont-have-what-i-want/comment-page-1/#comment-1169 Cheri Tue, 15 Sep 2009 04:01:08 +0000 http://www.coachtia.com/?p=1776#comment-1169 Great post Tia! I enjoyed our skype discussion the other day and loved reading your blog and all the fabulous comments! Thank you for the quote at the end - you are so kind! I have one thing to add to the commitment discussion. I moved a lot when I was growing up as well. I've always felt very connected to God and can feel energy very easily. But until lately I had a hard time connected to the earth. I never felt 'planted' and would always kind of wonder when we would move next. Anyway, I did some energy work and I got (at the heart level) that God is in the earth (as He is in everything.) And now I feel tied in - kind of like I'm connected to a bungee cord that goes to the center of the earth. Very firmly planted. Flexible and able to move, but tied in. From this abundant place, I chose to live fully right here, right now. So, I can put up curtains and fully decorate my house. And live here now. Maybe we will move - it doesn't matter - abundance will flow with me and I can put up curtains there too. But my thoughts are not so much on 'what if I don't stay' they are more about being here now. Fully. And allowing myself to enjoy the benefits of that feeling. Great post Tia! I enjoyed our skype discussion the other day and loved reading your blog and all the fabulous comments! Thank you for the quote at the end – you are so kind!

I have one thing to add to the commitment discussion. I moved a lot when I was growing up as well. I’ve always felt very connected to God and can feel energy very easily. But until lately I had a hard time connected to the earth. I never felt ‘planted’ and would always kind of wonder when we would move next.

Anyway, I did some energy work and I got (at the heart level) that God is in the earth (as He is in everything.) And now I feel tied in – kind of like I’m connected to a bungee cord that goes to the center of the earth. Very firmly planted. Flexible and able to move, but tied in.

From this abundant place, I chose to live fully right here, right now. So, I can put up curtains and fully decorate my house. And live here now. Maybe we will move – it doesn’t matter – abundance will flow with me and I can put up curtains there too. But my thoughts are not so much on ‘what if I don’t stay’ they are more about being here now. Fully. And allowing myself to enjoy the benefits of that feeling.

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